This week, Doc Love, author of "The System," coaches a reader on chasing a girl. Reader's Question. Hey Doc,. I need your advice. First of all. And by " chasing women," I don't mean that in the vaguely sarcastic tone of your buddy who's really good at picking up girls. When he says, "Let's go chase some. Do you want to be the one that your crush is chasing? Do you feel like you need some love? If so, read on Be friendly. Girl like when boys make the first move.